Trust is the bedrock of any relationship.I regard it as the most important key to any successful relationship and rate it even higher than love.Although ,there are many ingredients to a healthy relationship like intimacy, communication, love, trust etc. but the foundation of any relationship is trust.Various studies and surveys point to the fact that lack of trust is one of the top four reasons for relationship breakdowns.
Trust is the starting point and the basis from which we can build any relationship.Without trust your relationship does not have a strong foundation .And any relationship with weak foundation is always prone to breakdown at the slightest sign of a storm.In fact, trust is fundamental to life.
What exactly is trust? To trust someone means you have confidence in that person, you can rely on the person and at the same time feel physically and mentally safe with him/her.Trust makes relationship a safer place.With trust, there is no room for fear or any kind of insecurity in your relation with your partner.Trust is more consistent than the feelings of love.
Love is built on trust.You cannot love someone you do not trust.Trust always precedes love.Love is a precious emotion but it is also a very delicate and the vulnerable one.So, you only give it to someone you trust.
The strength of your relationship is determined by trust.The feelings of love might fluctuate over a period of time.Being a human, you might also experience lust.You may also find yourself emotionally attached to someone else.You might fall out of love also at times.And at that time, its trust that keeps you confident in the strength of the relationship.It is not necessary that love will fade away with time, its not necessary that you fall for someone else too;but in times of any emotional upheavals due to any reason, trust will keep your bond intact.Ideally, a healthy relationship will have love and trust both, there will be intimacy,vulnerability,acceptance,effective communication and lots more.Beyond doubt,trust has an edge over others.Although, all factors have to be given importance and also efforts are required to nourish every aspect of the relationship.Important point is if there is no trust or the trust is broken, the relationship has no chance to succeed.And there is even no point in trying to make it work.
Love without trust can be selfish.Trusting in relationship involves being concerned about your partner's needs.When you trust the person, you respect his/her values and try to act accordingly and always try to ensure that you intentionally never violate any of your partner's rules or standards.Even if you violate any of his/her values or do something to your partner's disliking unintentionally, you make sure that you never do it again. Love as I said earlier can be selfish especially if there is no trust between two persons.Love is an intense, passionate emotion ,powerful enough to get carried away and swept in your own feelings where your partner's feelings become secondary for you.
Love dies its natural death without trust.If you don't trust your partner,doubt him/her and are always suspicious of his/her activities, you will slowly observe the bitterness in your partner's attitude and the love she/he once had for you ,will begin to fade.In a way ,it also hinders your partner's growth as well.Trust creates the opportunity for love to grow but at the same time constantly being suspicious of your partner effects his/her freedom.
Trust allows any couple to experience the full potential of their relationship.Without trust, despite love and intimacy,in real sense only fear and insecurity prevails.It's a great feeling to have someone you can share everything with, knowing very well that whatever you share is secured,will be valued and respected.
Being trusted by our partner makes us a better person and we also pass on that trust onto others.It acts as a confidence booster and we achieve more in life.
Being able to trust your partners, love them profoundly has a positive impact on our mind.We consider the world at large full of good people, who are trustworthy.
No relationship can grow without trust.It's better to have no relationship than having one without trust.Life's battles become far easy with a trustworthy partner and you never feel lonely in life's journey.
It's a great feeling to be able to openly discuss anything in the world without any hesitation,share your good and bad experiences and be an open book to your partner.Transparency and open communication builds trust.
Trust is what makes us love again.If for any reason, our relationship could not work due to break of trust and we fell out of love, we will again fall in love but only after we find someone we can trust.And once trust is build, love will automatically happen.
"NEVER BREAK A PERSON'S TRUST. TRUSTING YOU IS THAT PERSON'S DECISION ,HOWEVER PROVING THAT PERSON RIGHT IS YOUR CHOICE"
LOVE
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